I'm a 41 year old, single, attractive female of European descent looking for that special someone to share and enjoy life with. I can't believe I'm really doing this but here I am actually creating this profile for you to read. Here it goes...I'm an intelligent, loving woman who is looking to share life with a man who will appreciate me for all I have to offer. I'm very optimistic and my enthusiasm for life is contagious. I love to stay active and this includes going to the gym, biking, long walks-anything to keep me busy and out of trouble! (Not that I'm prone to trouble or anything! I'm an independant, career-focused individual who values most - a healthy lifestyle, family and friends while staying true to yourself, believing that anything is possible when you work hard and are motivated to achieve and aspire to your goals. I know what I want out of life and I need someone to share my dreams and passions with. Connecting not just physically but mentally and emotionally. Life is too short to spend sleeping alone but I'd much rather be alone than in bad company (for now, anyway!) Thanks and Take Care!

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a real person with a good head (the one on their shoulders!) Someone who appreciates a good woman when he sees her. I have no time for head games or individuals who are commitment phobic. I believe that relationships which are built on trust, honesty and open communication can have a chance if you are committed to it. Anyone can easily giveup and walk away...that's probably why divorce is so common these days. If I sound unrealistic to you, too serious about what I want then I'm not the one...good luck in your search