I'm a mature, sexy woman who is secure in myself and my sexuality. I love sex, but only as part of an ongoing relationship. I want someone who can be my friend first - and if it progresses from there, we both win. As far as I'm concerned age is simply a number. I don't look, feel, or act what my number truly is and that’s OK with me. I have way too much left to do in this life to get hung up on that. On the other hand, there are limits to how wide an age range is workable - if you're young enough to be my , we probably aren't going to have too much in common in the relationship arena. [COLOR purple](FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO SEEM TO BE MATHEMATICALLY CHALLENGED: My oldest is 36 so if you're younger than that, you're too young!!!)[/COLOR] Most of my friends are in their 30s and 40s and that's pretty much my mind set. If you are older than me, the odds are that we will have little to nothing in common. I'm not looking for someone to “take care of me”. I can do that for myself and prefer it that way. I'm also not looking to raise anyone’s – I've raised mine and they are my best friends! I have a responsible job. I know how to work hard – and I know how to play hard. [COLOR crimson][B]PLEASE READ THIS PART AND RESPECT MY PREFERENCES!! [/B][/COLOR] I am not interested in casual sex, married men, women, bisexuals, groups, or one night stands. [B]I AM ALSO NOT INTERESTED IN DATING BLACK MEN!!![/B] - I'm sure that you're all very nice guys and all; I'm just not interested so save yourself the effort.

My Ideal Person What I WOULD like is to find someone who would like to share my ride down life’s pathways. I am an intelligent, attractive woman with a slightly wacky sense of humor who is full of life and ready for what each new day will bring. I want to find someone who believes in being active, doing things together, talking to each other… While I realize that may be an anomaly on this site, I don’t think its outside of possibility, do you?

That means that I am looking for a REAL RELATIONSHIP!! Not necessarily a lifelong commitment or even exclusive but also not someone who wants to send sexy emails or IMs – or someone who wants to talk on the phone now and then but never plans to really have a meeting. Like you guys who are not looking for a “pay web site”, I am not looking for someone who just wants to play games to entertain themselves… If your only interest is to see how far you can go without an actual meeting, move on to the next bio.

One other note, I have done you the courtesy of posting a current picture, in good taste and with clothing. Believe it or not, a girl really does care about more than just your "equipment" so please return the favor with a current one of your own – that means your face, not your private parts!

If you are a NONSMOKER, under 50, height/weight proportional and would like to get to know me as a person, let me hear from you and let's see where we go..

Yes, I HAVE put limits on my numbers!! Even though I believe that we aren't necessarily equivalent to our physical numbers, I have learned what works for me and what doesn't. Each of us is entitled to our own opinion - just don't be surprised if I'm not impressed with you trying to change my mind about mine. I don't want to date someone younger than my children, but I don't want to date someone who reminds me of my father either!!

I WON'T know if I'm interested if I can't SEE you, so please send a pic if you contact me. IF YOU DON'T INCLUDE ONE IN AN EMAIL, I WILL NOT RESPOND.

Also, if you are a brand new gold member, don't expect a response from me in the first few days even if I'm interested because I'm not going to upgrade to gold just to be able to do so and they're not going to let me view you until later.

One last thing.... I'm really not interested in long distance relationships - it's hard enough to develop something in person much less only through email or chat so please don't be surprised OR offended when I turn down your invitation. I generally don't respond to emails that I'm not interested in because I don't choose to get into a "mail argument" as to why I didn't pick you - again, not trying to offend, just tired of the games....

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metallica, Korn, Linkin Park, Blue October

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
would much rather just have a real person

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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