Aloha, I'm 48, yet, young at heart; naive, yet, no dumb ass; serious, yet, simple; Shy, yet, outgoing; Alone, yet, horny. Being away from home, AND horny? Double whammy..I'm coming off a rough year perally. Widowed, and that's all I'll say about that. It's all about restructuring my life, and maintaining my direction. I'm ready to smile and laugh again. And most of all, I'm ready to share again. I've met some awesome women here on AFF. All wonderful friends. As far as hooking up, well, if someone like be with me, she'll let me know. Competing is too frustrating and time consuming. People are so image and possession-minded these days, it takes away from who we really are. No make sense to me. So I just maintain my "Hawaiian" values, relax, be honest, be me and take 'em easy brah. Yet, I feel like a creep, seemingly so, but not at all trying to take advantage of so many cool and beautiful women here. But I'm living here alone on the Mainland, and one can't have too many friends. The only real life changing choices we make. I just try to keep it respectful. I'm cool and still party a little. A product of the 60's & 70's, I'm self-assured and confident about my life and its prospects. I'm not a procrastinator, I hate that. I'm sarcastic though. Yea,, whatever... I'm a Vietnam Vet,(Marine, what else is there?), and a former career firefighter/paramedic. I have lived an adventurous & adrenaline-charged life, but I like slow down to see and try something new and maybe meet that special someone as I make that turn towards the big 5-0. I'm height/weight proportionate, whatever that means, and keep it that way. I'm into typical "guy" things like Harley's, Hawaiian jamz and my culture, classic rock & roll, (Clapton), smooth jazz, and walks, big wave surfing, and sex on da beach at sunset or sunrise, always under a rainbow. I'm not your typical "older guy". 50 isn't shit to me. My wife was 20 years younger when she passed, I live for today, for what it is. But I am quiet, private, easy-going, and reserved in nature. And I'm really not that bad of a guy. I love to laugh, but haven't laughed much in the past year. I have a lot of pent up sexual desires and fantasies. I'm going to brag that I'm hung like a , but I still have it. Above all, I do crave and miss the touch, companionship, and aloha of a woman. Not just any woman though. But I'm ok with that,(except Fri..Sat..Sun..Mon...), because I know it'll be worth it when the right one comes into my life. We'll both know, I guess. Mahalo.

My Ideal Person She's a single F, 20-40, who's special, in her own way. She's self-confident and vibrant. She's sexy and sensual, and not insecure about it. Someone who likes to let her hair down. She's so funny, she cracks me up, and is romantically receptive. She knows what she wants out of her life and a partner. Someone who's looking for a decent man. She's comfortable within their own skin and exudes confidence, whether in privacy or in public. I am NOT the jealous type. Looks, age, and ethnicity are of no consequence. She is someone who will appreciate the simple and laid back part of life. Someone independent and curious about life. She sees the world as it is, as she does her man. She enjoys the touch and warm embraces of the moment. Whether chillin' at home, or an evening concert under the stars. Making love and passion will then be what it should be. I would like to go back home to Hawai`i within a year or so, think of the possibilities...???..Mahalo and Aloha.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Cecilio & Kapono, Eric Clapton, Israel Kamakawiwo`ole, Grateful Dead, Pter Moon

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'd love to repeat what I experienced a few years ago..2 women on the beach at night under a full moon.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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