Smart, intuitive and never boring. I love the unexpected and the unusual. I have what you may call an obtuse sense of humour. Most friends would call me an original. My idea of a joke is to send the Ayatollah a one year subscription to Cosmo magazine. I have made interesting friends here and would like to get to know more interesting people, if nothing else. AFF is so much more than just a sex site. Discretion is very important as I am a working professional and..... yada yada yada...... you know the rest. I have tried a little of just about everything.... role play, bondage, group scenes..... I also have something of an underwear fetish..... I am definitely not into pain or the excretion of any fluids that glows under UV light or capable of decomposing. Currently, I am exploring my BDSM side, which I find to be very...... human. I am genuine and NOT a faker. Hey, not everyone is here to jump into bed. I enjoy social activities like drinks. I also enjoy chats via IM or phone to get to know people a bit better before meeting up.

My Ideal Person Some years ago, I had a relationship with another couple that lasted for quite a while. We were all friends and the relationship ended when the couple returned back to their home country.

It was one of the most satisfying relationship that I had, something that is very special to me. I do not think this relationship can be repeated. However, I am still hoping to meet genuine couples that I can relate to. My ideal is a MMF relationship or encounter.

Depending on the boundaries set, I am also looking for partners that are willing to explore BDSM. This may or may not be explored as it is not everyone's cup of tea. I am a DOM and I practice safe bondage (and I don't mean wearing more rubber). This can range from light bondage or more adventurous stuff. The limits and safety aspect needs to be discussed before we attempt anything. (I am starting to sound like a school teacher, don't I?)

I am also looking to find ladies or groups who share my view that sexuality and sensuality are innate freedom of expressions. (you may interpret this to mean a night of reading Shelley together, or an evening of wild abandonement).

Above all else, I am looking for people who are first and foremost human -- real, warm, intelligent and knowing that this is so much more than just a sex site. I expect friendship, good company and interesting conversations.

I do not expect all encounters to be sexual. That may or may not happen AFTER we have taken the time and effort to get to know each other better.

In this site, single males finding a match here is like the North Koreans finding religion. So I will be patient......

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Miles Davis, Steve Reich, Stanley Jordan, Charlie Parker, David Benoit, Vince Garuldi... too many!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Chem-is-try!!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I never had a celebrity fantasy. Don't know why but I prefer to fantasize about real people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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