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How saying " No Thanks"? 9/18/2009
Hello all,
Many ladies are trying to contact me here... In some I am interest and in other I am not. When you are not
interest in someone you can build a real realation, right?
or even be honest in your feeling? Is there a way to say No thanks smoothly without hearting
her?
thx
1 Comments, 38 Views,
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Here's one way ! 8/25/2009
Just tell whoever that your seeing someone and you don't
want to cheat on them. ...
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too what 8/10/2009
never say never to sex drugs always say no and then u will
be safe
2 Comments, 38 Views,
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passing 8/4/2009
whats the best line you used to reject someone
1 Comments, 72 Views,
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What's worse? 7/22/2009
Being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick or
guy you can't fuck (for whatever reason) or being horny
as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick/guy that won't
fuck you?
8 Comments, 70 Views,
3 Votes
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Really No Thanks? 7/21/2009
Saying No is not taken lightly by some.Saying No Thanks
is a strong suggestion that the person really means the
opposite. Men are attracted to women who use the NO word and always
confuse the situation by thinking it means YES. For the life of me I cannot understand why? People are the same anywhere you go. They argue about everything
then say no. When the opportunity comes for them to say really ...
5 Comments, 98 Views,
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When to run away?? 6/29/2009
Recently I met up with a lady in Cambridge who seemed on the
surface to be a normal, relatively sexy woman. She had a
few more tattoos than I was expecting but they seemed tasteful.
She was in pretty good shape and it turned out she was a black
belt in karate. On leaving the bar where we met I asked is
she was ticklish and she said no and dont - I took this to mean
please tickle me now, but when ...
7 Comments, 170 Views,
5 Votes
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Fatal attraction ! 6/9/2009
Fatal attractions can come from just merely saying,
"No thanks!"
Have you ever known this to happen to anyone near to you?
...
3 Comments, 96 Views,
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Not saying no means no? 6/2/2009
How many of you just leave an email unanswered if you're
not interested?
How many of you actually reply to say "No thanks"?
18 Comments, 173 Views,
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Ok this has been on my mind... 5/3/2009
so i have a general guideline when it comes to guys, i prefer
guys between 18 and 26, but it seems that i get more emails
and IMs from guys who are over 26...how do i nicely let them
down?
9 Comments, 212 Views,
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How do YOU handle this? 4/26/2009
Let's say you have made a connection here (or on another
site, whatever...) and you finally meet. You discover
that there is just not a good connection there, or no real
attraction... what do you say? How do you handle that situation
without hurting their feelings? This has happened to me
a couple times, and I never want to hurt someone's feelings,
but you also can't pretend there's a ...
11 Comments, 205 Views,
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the lead on...... 4/17/2009
Were all adults here-hence the name 'AdultFriendFinder'please
just be up front and honest-if your not interested just
come out and say it.......
4 Comments, 59 Views,
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Here is a scenario: 4/13/2009
We, as a couple, choose to play together with women..not
necessarily other couples. We get propositioned all the
time from couples that want us to come play with them. As
inviting an offer as it is, we have more of an interest in
playing with the female counter part of the couple as opposed
to both of them. We do not full swap, as of yet, but most of
these couples want us to "equally" share the ...
4 Comments, 83 Views,
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why when we say 'no thank you'? 4/4/2009
Some guys say when they have been told No thank you, well
'your loss'
why is it my loss? if i don't think we match for whatever
reason, how can that then be my loss.
It makes me laugh cause I can only assume that they think
they are gods gift and that i should be grateful or something.
To me a loss is losing someone who dies not someone I am not
interested in having sex with. ...
10 Comments, 142 Views,
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what is it.. 3/15/2009
with people who cant take no for an answer? why are there so many nuts out there that think just because
you slept with them a couple times you are meant to be together
forever?
3 Comments, 63 Views,
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why not just accept the response no thanks 3/11/2009
wasn't sure whether to put this in the 'saying
'no thanks' or the rants & raves
So many times I get contacted by the same people who I have
said no thanks to as politely as I can.
But yet they still do it and some even then become abusive
about it.
One has even called me a 'saddo' today who 'needs
a life' because I didn't want to talk to the pictureless,
one line ...
6 Comments, 87 Views,
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why why no pics? 3/7/2009
After being on this scene on and off for over 20 years we've
come to realise its a total absolute waste of time and breath
asking people to put SOME kind of pics in profile! Despite
us sayin they dont have to be facial or explicit, still
they dont! its especialy difficult if you're a standard member
and therefore cant access some profiles fully. so that
one little pic we CAN see makes ALL ...
7 Comments, 126 Views,
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Sore Losers... 1/27/2009
I had a guy email me with interest of talking and I politely
told him he had a great profile, seemed like a nice guy, but
I had recently started dating someone/am looking for a
girl to join us.
His reply got him blocked by AdultFriendFinder...
What is the appropiate way to say "No thanks"...if
there is one on here?...
7 Comments, 251 Views,
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When a woman says no 1/20/2009
I'm sorry for all those guys who
don't understand the word... NO! When you meet a woman
and there's just no attraction and she tells you so.
Normally that means one thing leave her alone! Not continue
to harass and bother her. It's just creepy and weird
to have someone following your every move and having to
check up on you after you tell them that you want nothing
to do with ...
5 Comments, 95 Views,
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Why can men not take a hint 1/12/2009
I'm a straight man. Says right in my profile who I'm
lookin to meet. So why is it that gay or bi men still feel the
need to contact me and not take no for an answer? I'm
curious if women have the same issue with the men on this
site be they straight bi or otherwise?
2 Comments, 72 Views,
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omg... get the picture! 1/11/2009
so as i sit on my computer doing my own thing talking to the
random guys that have come across my screen and i wonder
if they even have looked at my profile. i have an issue with
age cos of how young i am and how i want to find somone closer
in age.. i dont understand why older men find it fun to keep
trying. listen when a person says no they mean it. just listen
and respect!
3 Comments, 109 Views,
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saying no thanks 1/10/2009
saying no thanks
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just no 1/7/2009
you know on this website i have so many guys trying to talk
to me and it get kinda of annoying when they get persistant
and to the point of scary when they end up sending you messages
and photos everyday...so please guys if the girl doesnt
reply its for a reason take the hint!
2 Comments, 82 Views,
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Be Polite and Respond 1/2/2009
One of the things that I've noticed here, and to be honest
on every other site is that people don't respond, even
to say, "No Thanks." Whatever happened to common
courtesy? It doesn't cost anything to simply say,
"Not Intrested, " and it will probably keep
you from getting repeat messages.
3 Comments, 91 Views,
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Why Waste Time? 12/29/2008
I've been a member of AdultFriendFinder for 6 yrs now, my question is:
Why do the Gold members have to spend money for standards
to view their profiles? Then these "cheap-os"
have the nerve to "request" VIP be in Gold's
profile, to guarantee an reply. I must have spent $400 on helping standards and they reply at least twice, then vanish. Or most woman members claim they're interested(even
in your local ...
3 Comments, 140 Views,
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Co-ed 12/23/2008
I have this colleague at work who's been flirting with
me. She doesn't know that I have a girlfriend. She keeps
bending forward showing off her cleavage to me. Once at
the pantry area, she groped me and told me that she found
me attractive. How do I say no without hurting her feelings
or embarassing her?
4 Comments, 112 Views,
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big, big woman 12/1/2008
To them I always have to say No Thanks. Don't look hear.
Look elsewhere, not interested. I can't do that, nope,
and sorry.
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Sign of the times ! 11/21/2008
You try to enter your password on the microwave.
You haven't played solitaire with a real deck of cards
in a year.
You have a list of fifteen to reach your family
of three.
Your just bought a CD of all the records your college
roommate used to play that you most despised.
Every commercial on television has a web-site addy at the bottom of the screen. ...
15 Comments, 152 Views,
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Divorce ! ! ! 11/11/2008
The word "divorce, " from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals up through
his ass, through his Levi's and plumb through his wallet
and on to freedom. ...
15 Comments, 193 Views,
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What to do... 10/28/2008
Question for both sexes...
What to do when the opposite sex wants to meet for a sexual
encounter but you are not into the physical for whatever
reason.
Things to consider?
Am I a jerk for not wanting too...
Your thoughts?
3 Comments, 90 Views,
8 Votes
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