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How saying " No Thanks"?   9/18/2009

Hello all,

Many ladies are trying to contact me here... In some I am interest and in other I am not. When you are not interest in someone you can build a real realation, right? or even be honest in your feeling? Is there a way to say No thanks smoothly without hearting her?

thx


1 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Here's one way !   8/25/2009

Just tell whoever that your seeing someone and you don't want to cheat on them. ...


4 Comments, 78 Views, 31 Votes
1guyneed2girl 36 C
11  Articles
too what   8/10/2009

never say never to sex drugs always say no and then u will be safe


2 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
BRON13 37 M
7  Articles
passing   8/4/2009

whats the best line you used to reject someone


1 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Dickeymo69 47 M
4  Articles
What's worse?   7/22/2009

Being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick or guy you can't fuck (for whatever reason) or being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick/guy that won't fuck you?


8 Comments, 70 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
sync94 49 M
10  Articles
Really No Thanks?   7/21/2009

Saying No is not taken lightly by some.Saying No Thanks is a strong suggestion that the person really means the opposite. Men are attracted to women who use the NO word and always confuse the situation by thinking it means YES. For the life of me I cannot understand why? People are the same anywhere you go. They argue about everything then say no. When the opportunity comes for them to say really ...


5 Comments, 98 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Doulikefun 53 M
2  Articles
When to run away??   6/29/2009

Recently I met up with a lady in Cambridge who seemed on the surface to be a normal, relatively sexy woman. She had a few more tattoos than I was expecting but they seemed tasteful. She was in pretty good shape and it turned out she was a black belt in karate. On leaving the bar where we met I asked is she was ticklish and she said no and dont - I took this to mean please tickle me now, but when ...


7 Comments, 170 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Fatal attraction !   6/9/2009

Fatal attractions can come from just merely saying, "No thanks!"

Have you ever known this to happen to anyone near to you?
...


3 Comments, 96 Views, 33 Votes
rm_tlswordsman 33 M
1  Article
Not saying no means no?   6/2/2009

How many of you just leave an email unanswered if you're not interested?

How many of you actually reply to say "No thanks"?


18 Comments, 173 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
kvv202020 36 F
5  Articles
Ok this has been on my mind...   5/3/2009

so i have a general guideline when it comes to guys, i prefer guys between 18 and 26, but it seems that i get more emails and IMs from guys who are over 26...how do i nicely let them down?


9 Comments, 212 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
How do YOU handle this?   4/26/2009

Let's say you have made a connection here (or on another site, whatever...) and you finally meet. You discover that there is just not a good connection there, or no real attraction... what do you say? How do you handle that situation without hurting their feelings? This has happened to me a couple times, and I never want to hurt someone's feelings, but you also can't pretend there's a ...


11 Comments, 205 Views, 16 Votes ,5.77 Score
the lead on......   4/17/2009

Were all adults here-hence the name 'AdultFriendFinder'please just be up front and honest-if your not interested just come out and say it.......


4 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
ALREADYTAKENAGAI 50 C
1  Article
Here is a scenario:   4/13/2009

We, as a couple, choose to play together with women..not necessarily other couples. We get propositioned all the time from couples that want us to come play with them. As inviting an offer as it is, we have more of an interest in playing with the female counter part of the couple as opposed to both of them. We do not full swap, as of yet, but most of these couples want us to "equally" share the ...


4 Comments, 83 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
wildcatr27 52 F
11  Articles
why when we say 'no thank you'?   4/4/2009

Some guys say when they have been told No thank you, well 'your loss'

why is it my loss? if i don't think we match for whatever reason, how can that then be my loss.

It makes me laugh cause I can only assume that they think they are gods gift and that i should be grateful or something. To me a loss is losing someone who dies not someone I am not interested in having sex with. ...


10 Comments, 142 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
what is it..   3/15/2009

with people who cant take no for an answer? why are there so many nuts out there that think just because you slept with them a couple times you are meant to be together forever?


3 Comments, 63 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
wildcatr27 52 F
11  Articles
why not just accept the response no thanks   3/11/2009

wasn't sure whether to put this in the 'saying 'no thanks' or the rants & raves

So many times I get contacted by the same people who I have said no thanks to as politely as I can.

But yet they still do it and some even then become abusive about it.

One has even called me a 'saddo' today who 'needs a life' because I didn't want to talk to the pictureless, one line ...


6 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
rm_hedonist5251 65 C
2  Articles
why why no pics?   3/7/2009

After being on this scene on and off for over 20 years we've come to realise its a total absolute waste of time and breath asking people to put SOME kind of pics in profile! Despite us sayin they dont have to be facial or explicit, still they dont! its especialy difficult if you're a standard member and therefore cant access some profiles fully. so that one little pic we CAN see makes ALL ...


7 Comments, 126 Views, 15 Votes ,4.05 Score
c00k132 45 F
3  Articles
Sore Losers...   1/27/2009

I had a guy email me with interest of talking and I politely told him he had a great profile, seemed like a nice guy, but I had recently started dating someone/am looking for a girl to join us.

His reply got him blocked by AdultFriendFinder...

What is the appropiate way to say "No thanks"...if there is one on here?...


7 Comments, 251 Views, 21 Votes ,5.97 Score
When a woman says no   1/20/2009

I'm sorry for all those guys who don't understand the word... NO! When you meet a woman and there's just no attraction and she tells you so. Normally that means one thing leave her alone! Not continue to harass and bother her. It's just creepy and weird to have someone following your every move and having to check up on you after you tell them that you want nothing to do with ...


5 Comments, 95 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
bigbadwolf72779 44 M
2  Articles
Why can men not take a hint   1/12/2009

I'm a straight man. Says right in my profile who I'm lookin to meet. So why is it that gay or bi men still feel the need to contact me and not take no for an answer? I'm curious if women have the same issue with the men on this site be they straight bi or otherwise?


2 Comments, 72 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
omg... get the picture!   1/11/2009

so as i sit on my computer doing my own thing talking to the random guys that have come across my screen and i wonder if they even have looked at my profile. i have an issue with age cos of how young i am and how i want to find somone closer in age.. i dont understand why older men find it fun to keep trying. listen when a person says no they mean it. just listen and respect!


3 Comments, 109 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
01717222560 35 M
10  Articles
saying no thanks   1/10/2009

saying no thanks


0 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes
rm_jessy93550 44 F
1  Article
just no   1/7/2009

you know on this website i have so many guys trying to talk to me and it get kinda of annoying when they get persistant and to the point of scary when they end up sending you messages and photos everyday...so please guys if the girl doesnt reply its for a reason take the hint!


2 Comments, 82 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Hobo5352758 76 M
1  Article
Be Polite and Respond   1/2/2009

One of the things that I've noticed here, and to be honest on every other site is that people don't respond, even to say, "No Thanks." Whatever happened to common courtesy? It doesn't cost anything to simply say, "Not Intrested, " and it will probably keep you from getting repeat messages.


3 Comments, 91 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
plussize2003 56 M
1  Article
Why Waste Time?   12/29/2008

I've been a member of AdultFriendFinder for 6 yrs now, my question is: Why do the Gold members have to spend money for standards to view their profiles? Then these "cheap-os" have the nerve to "request" VIP be in Gold's profile, to guarantee an reply. I must have spent $400 on helping standards and they reply at least twice, then vanish. Or most woman members claim they're interested(even in your local ...


3 Comments, 140 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Co-ed   12/23/2008

I have this colleague at work who's been flirting with me. She doesn't know that I have a girlfriend. She keeps bending forward showing off her cleavage to me. Once at the pantry area, she groped me and told me that she found me attractive. How do I say no without hurting her feelings or embarassing her?


4 Comments, 112 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lasher2012 46 M
1  Article
big, big woman   12/1/2008

To them I always have to say No Thanks. Don't look hear. Look elsewhere, not interested. I can't do that, nope, and sorry.


1 Comments, 109 Views, 11 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Sign of the times !   11/21/2008

You try to enter your password on the microwave.

You haven't played solitaire with a real deck of cards in a year.

You have a list of fifteen to reach your family of three.

Your just bought a CD of all the records your college roommate used to play that you most despised.

Every commercial on television has a web-site addy at the bottom of the screen. ...


15 Comments, 152 Views, 58 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Divorce ! ! !   11/11/2008

The word "divorce, " from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals up through his ass, through his Levi's and plumb through his wallet and on to freedom. ...


15 Comments, 193 Views, 58 Votes ,0.79 Score
Sulk_000001 45 M
2  Articles
What to do...   10/28/2008

Question for both sexes...

What to do when the opposite sex wants to meet for a sexual encounter but you are not into the physical for whatever reason.

Things to consider?

Am I a jerk for not wanting too...

Your thoughts?


3 Comments, 90 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score