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Black and White   12/23/2005

I'm a white male that has a vary lovely black lady friend and when we are out I notice a lot of angry looks from black men. Why is that?


6 Comments, 340 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
Skinny-dipping   12/12/2005

What To Bring <br> Skinny-dipping, although known by another name, is in fact swimming. You should always bring a second person to keep yourself safe. Skinny-dipping can be a lonely activity if you don't bring another person, just like any other type of physical activity. <br> Since swimming involves water, a towel is usually a good idea, as well. Sometimes when you get ...


2 Comments, 262 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
differentfunKC 46 M
5  Articles
What is the best way to ask.   12/8/2005

When I am dating someone for the first time, I am always very nervous about their past sexual history. Is there an easy way to ask without sounding offensive?


0 Comments, 460 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
vaninow 60 M
3  Articles
Question Mark Men   12/7/2005

Question mark men want to know all about you. They give very little information about themself but expect you to deliver the goods. When you ask them questions, their answers are vague. They don't communicate well. I had a Question Mark man just this morning send me a picture of his female partners genitalia with no text and a phone number. I have made it so very clear, no couples please ...


1 Comments, 258 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
vaninow 60 M
3  Articles
Question Mark Men   12/7/2005

Question mark men want to know all about you. They give very little information about themself but expect you to deliver the goods. When you ask them questions, their answers are vague. They don't communicate well. I had a Question Mark man just this morning send me a picture of his female partners genitalia with no text and a phone number. I have made it so very clear, no couples please ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Play Safely   12/6/2005

When meeting for the first time, arrange to meet in a public place, in a specific spot, and sit in a distant spot where you can see it.Get there a bit earlier than planned, and keep your eyes open, When they arrive, if everything is kosher, then keep your meeting.Play it by ear, and listen to your instincts.


1 Comments, 155 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Meet in a Casual Restaurant or a Coffee Shop   12/4/2005

On this or any other site, you do not know who you are meeting, so it is advisable to use caution when doing so. <br> On your first date, it would be advisable, to meet at either a casual restaurant or a coffee shop under the condition that if either of you do not like the other, you could always get up and walk away. That way, you have your own car to go to and you do not have ...


1 Comments, 337 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Condoms   12/2/2005

It's important to use condomss guys. The rate of getting STD's by having an unprtected sex with someone with a HIV is about 50%. That means 1 out of 2 people you have had sex with who has HIV can give you the disease. With the numbers of the people increasing, we have to keep than in mind. On top of this, there are other diseases like Chlaydia, gonorrhea, etc. They're all nasty. Let us all ...


1 Comments, 207 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
driving   11/23/2005

is it wrong that ilike cumming in my girls mouth


5 Comments, 458 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
bigandthik04u 44 M
4  Articles
When is safe to safe?   11/23/2005

I met this girl and we planned to meet but we had a small disagreement over something understandable and she got cold feet and said she did not want to meet the day we planned. I was very angered by that because I feel like she blew it way out of proportion. Was I wrong for telling her that I don't want to meet at all because she cancelled our initial meeting over something that wasn't even ...


1 Comments, 259 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would you join a group...   10/31/2005

Dear AdultFriendFinder members; <br> How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group, where the membership requirements are. That you must be willing to go with a current group member or the group’s moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...


2 Comments, 188 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
rm_Henry19004 45 C
1  Article
Who makes the first move   10/7/2005

Well we all now that in the old days the male made the first move but now that we are in the naughties whats the go. I found that some women hate it when I made the first move while others loved it, i just wish that women were easy to read like comic books. Also who makes the first move when couple swapping is it the couple that inititated contact or is the couple whos house your in. What ...


3 Comments, 389 Views, 21 Votes ,5.11 Score
wantsyou4sex2 113 M
3  Articles
beware the quiet ones   9/9/2005

Quiet ones are dangerous, you never know whats going on behind those eyes. Shy is one thing and so is inexperiance but when they are constantly silent ask yourself, what are they hiding


2 Comments, 259 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
rm_BnKnNC 42 C
7  Articles
Thoughts   9/1/2005

Just a few thoughts on safety: <br> 1) Meet in a public place for the first time. <br> 2) Let someone know where your going and what time to expect you back (you can always call later). <br> 3) Keep an eye on your drinks. It's really easy for someone to slip something in there. <br> 4) Carry your own protection. Never leave it up to your partner to ...


1 Comments, 209 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
MidMoswing 45 C
2  Articles
Be careful when meeting for the first time   8/23/2005

From Experience let me tell you , it is not the wisest thing to do to just go and meet someone off of the internet. Make for sure you have talked with this person on the phone for awhile , before ever agreing to meet.


2 Comments, 553 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
Be very careful, not so much from violence but from desire over diease.   8/21/2005

Hey guy & girls also. I have only been on this site a little over a month. I am really a happily married 60 yr old horny man. I have never been able to keep my cock in my pants when confronted with a sexy lady with a great body. My wife doesn't know anything about this computer I just bought, except I spend a lot of time on it. Right after I got the computer, I found this web site. I ...


1 Comments, 254 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
Trust Your Instincts   8/11/2005

It appears by what I read to be pretty common practice to meet in a public place the first time. Make sure you have plenty of time to talk and get a feel for the guy. If it doesn't feel right it probably isn't right. God gave you gut instinct to protect you. Women seem to have a more keen since for this anyway. Don't put yourself in harms way, it isn't worth it. <br> Look him ...


1 Comments, 234 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
femoty 55 F
1  Article
Know who you're meeting and meet in public!!!   8/1/2005

It was on the news here in NC, a woman left from Flordia to meet a man in Charlotte. Whom she met on an on line dating service. Well she wound up begin tied up and for 2 days in a Microtel. She got away from him and they say he's done it before. That is why I like to meet somewhere public first.You never know what you got until it is too late.


1 Comments, 332 Views, 19 Votes ,4.18 Score
rm_jera0577777 48 M
7  Articles
Condoms...A must.   7/10/2005

I think the safety of a meeting is as important as the urge for the gratification.What do you think>?


1 Comments, 177 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_tiger_brew 49 C
2  Articles
New Swinger's Information on Parties   7/9/2005

Swingers parties are a great place to meet new couple, singles, whatever u are into. People usually hang out, drink, dance, etc...If u are new to the lifestyle and are attending ur first party read any-and-all rules that apply to this setting, there are usually a couple. One in particualr u want to find though is the "NO MEANS NO" agreement. Which states simply that no means no. If you say ...


1 Comments, 288 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
How a photo album can make for a safe date   7/5/2005

I just happen to have a bunch of cops that are close friends. One day I was out for coffee on a first date with a guy and we were talking about our pets. I got out my little photo album and flipped by about 6 photos of me and my friends in their uniforms to get to my dog's photo. All the sudden the guy had an appointment he forgot about and he got up and left in a hurry. I never heard ...


1 Comments, 348 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
rm_swiftone2313 42 M
4  Articles
HI   7/4/2005

Has anyone had a bad experiences on here....


3 Comments, 192 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
sdgentleman69 50 M
10  Articles
meeting for the first time...   7/1/2005

Do you ladies like to meet at your place first, or someplace in public and then decide?


2 Comments, 136 Views, 2 Votes
Latinmalesocalif 68 C
1  Article
Always keep your date that you agreed too   6/27/2005

One thing that I have noticed a lot is that many people who one gets to talk too via email first never ever show up when it is meeting time. One other thing that I have noticed is that after both sides have talked and discussed a lot of issues when you finally meet the OTHER party then decides right there and then to tell you NO for some reason or another when in the first place you ...


1 Comments, 271 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
Where to meet   6/26/2005

We have invited people to our home on occasion after several long on-line and telephone conversations including web camming. <br> We would adivise meeting at a party or a pub/club, unless you feel a connection right off.


1 Comments, 171 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_tcangel35 55 F
1  Article
fetishes   6/19/2005

i had a friend experiance a true dating nightmare , she was talking to a man online for over a year and evintually decided to meet him , so she went to dallas for the weekend. In talking to this man for so long she knew that he had a fetish , his turn -on was a womans neck :so in thinking that she liked her necked nibbled on and caressed with lips she thought that this encounter would be a ...


2 Comments, 303 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
rm_john21601 42 M
10  Articles
safe ?   6/14/2005

whgat is really safe? safe sex? like the pill or condoms? blah blah blah


1 Comments, 131 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Be Careful when ur out there !!!   5/28/2005

More than 1 out of every four women have been or sexually abused....and most of the time the situations are preventable...juat remember to take safety precautions when u are out in the world looking for a good time ..... especially with the recent increase in sexual crimes on women ..... <br> remember to... <br> 1. let close ppl friends/family to u know where u are going ...


0 Comments, 404 Views, 25 Votes ,3.46 Score
darkfalcon666 46 M
3  Articles
location, location, location   5/14/2005

Remember, when you have a chance for a romantic evening. The place is half the battle. The chances of continuing to date, have a longterm relationship or even sex can depend on where you go. If you go somewhere quiet and somber, she may enjoy it or she may become tired and want to end the date sooner. An active person will appreciate an active location, clubs for an example can be good. ...


1 Comments, 2655 Views, 103 Votes ,3.51 Score
shelby6655 46,1946 C
4  Articles
A cautious word.   5/11/2005

Todays society is finally begining to become more accept of the induvidual rights to sexual freedom. While alot of people still find the need to hide certain parts of there lives through threat of ridicule (never fear ridicule it is only a lack of understanding) or that they may be alienated from those they know. Thus as a result people who are normal, logical induviduals feel they must ...


6 Comments, 5133 Views, 250 Votes ,3.34 Score