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How to bring up using condoms! 4/3/2005
Now i like to have sex, but I have just recently broken up
with my boyfriend of three years who was the first and only
person i have ever slept with. Because I am on the pill and
we were eachothers first and only partners, using condoms
was never an issue. My plan is to now experience sex with
other partners (hence why I am on this site), but i find the
topic of condoms difficult to bring ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
25 Votes
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There is no such thing as safe sex 3/29/2005
I know a lot has been posted about safe sex. But, in reality,
there is no such thing. Some members say we should carry
our STD results around with us to prove we are clean. HELLO,
anybody that has taken an HIV test is told that the results
are only accurate up to 3 months BEFORE the date of the test.
Meaning my last HIV test, on 2/15/05, is only accurate to
11/15/04. Obviously, using a ...
0 Comments, 391 Views,
34 Votes
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Condoms 3/24/2005
I find it difficult getting a condom NOT to split during
sex, someone suggested they might be too small. How would
I know if they were too small or not as they are suppose to
be tight anyway, right?
2 Comments, 138 Views,
3 Votes
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Dental Dam 3/23/2005
I love oral sex - but fid it difficult to buy dental dams in
local stores. Any idea why the idea of dental dam has not
caught on as much as condoms? Now many people like to go downtown
I guess .
3 Comments, 614 Views,
5 Votes
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I see condoms used , but not for blow jobs 3/23/2005
I see pictures of couples who say condoms are a must and see
the same women with the guys cock in their mouth. Do you all
think you cant catch something this way also. You have the
mans member in your mouth and this also can give you STDs.You
must use a condom for all sex and the man must use a dam for
oral on a women. So I guess some of you need to wake up if you
really want to practice ...
1 Comments, 712 Views,
26 Votes
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is it relly safe 3/10/2005
what happens if things dont work out like you planed and
get something what then you cant blame anyone but your self
and the person that gave it to you
1 Comments, 115 Views,
6 Votes
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TEST RESULTS? 3/9/2005
WE ARE VERY MUCH LOOKING FORWARD INTO BRINGING ANOTHER
WOMAN OR TWO INTO OUR FOLD. NOT INTERESTED IN SOMEONE NEW
EACH WEEK. WE ARE TRYING OUR BEST TO BE SELECTIVE AND CAREFUL,
SINCE WE ARE BOTH CLEAN, D/D FREE, STD FREE ETC..
AND WANT TO KEEP IT THAT WAY. WE DONT WANT TO INSULT ANYONE,
BUT INSIST THEY ARE AS CLEAN AS WE ARE. IN AdultFriendFinder MAGAZINE "ASKING
TO SEE RESULTS OF TESTING", HOW ...
3 Comments, 378 Views,
26 Votes
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So how do you control the risks? 3/4/2005
I suspect we have an audience here that is, or would like
to be very sexually active. What are the real risks of being
active....having multiple sexual partners?
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I have been in a monogamous relationship for many years.
I know my partner and I know the risks. I am looking outside
that relationship for sexual experiences but it scares
me a bit. Is a condom enough to ...
1 Comments, 450 Views,
12 Votes
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going bareback.. 2/19/2005
well i have to say that when i am with a lady, especially at
home or some place where they are easlily accessible and
she wants to just go at with no condom it can almost be a turn-off.
now don't get me wrong, sex with a condom can not compare
with sex without a condom in terms of the sensation, but
all i can think is that if you do not make me wear one, you don't
make anyone else wear one ...
3 Comments, 191 Views,
30 Votes
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Important message...plz don't ignore 2/17/2005
Read it carefully and do not take it light....
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A very urgent message. This happened in Paris recently
and may happen elsewhere also. A few weeks ago, in a movie
theatre, a person felt something poking from her seat.
When she got uptosee what it was, she found a needle sticking
out of the seat with a note attached saying : "You have
just been infected by HIV". The Disease ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
14 Votes
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Sexually transmitted diseases rising 2/14/2005
I would just like to say that statistics show that the practises
of safe sex are ignored, as incidents of chlamidia, gonorrhea
and syphillis are on the increase.......so why dont people
use condoms? The men that I have had relationships with
always say that they dont like using condoms, lack of sensitivity, spontaneity
etc.
Has any other female experienced this? and how do they deal
with ...
1 Comments, 174 Views,
17 Votes
,3.13 Score |
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How careful are you? 2/12/2005
So, you find a girl on the site. You meet at your designated
location. Then the sex begins. After a certain period of
time, you become seconds away from "spilling"
inside of her. What do you do?
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A: She's on birth control, let it flow!
B: Pull out, it's too risky.
C: Let her decide.
16 Comments, 691 Views,
51 Votes
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AdultFriendFinder...Wrap It Up! 2/12/2005
Lets face it; a man will stick his penis anywhere a woman
tells him to. It’s your prerogative to choose to have sex
with or without a condom. Personally I think anyone who
has sex with a man or a woman and doesn’t use a condom is playing
Russian roulette with his or her lives. Unless you are in
a serious relationship don’t let some man put his penis
in you without a ...
3 Comments, 803 Views,
74 Votes
,8.32 Score |
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Condoms...who hates them? 2/10/2005
Never had to use them...hate to wear them now. How do you
deal with this? Do most women insist their partners use
them?
1 Comments, 28 Views,
27 Votes
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Condoms a must 2/10/2005
Any woman who has unprotected sex is a bimbo. If you feel
like living disease and certain death free please protect
yourself.
1 Comments, 627 Views,
81 Votes
,6.45 Score |
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anal sex 2/9/2005
i have never had anal sex. Is there anyone out there that
could inform me on how to go about to try it. my ex said it hurt
when we tried an dsaid she would let me try again but never
did. Any pointers
3 Comments, 478 Views,
19 Votes
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Reel Bum-er 2/5/2005
I recently met a female on this site who gave me something
to think about and I wonder what others might think. She
had been in a relationship with a man until recently for
over two years. During that time she says he is the only man
she had sex with as they were supposed to be exclusive. She
learned he had on several swinger's sites and was running
around so she broke up with him. ...
4 Comments, 845 Views,
40 Votes
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Where do we go to get tested to show we're DF? 2/5/2005
My wife and I have never been tested and want to do so just
so we can answer potential new friends that we are truly
disease free. Niether of us feel comfortable at all with
addressing this with our normal doctors due to living in
small communities and knowing office personel. Discretion
is the utmost of importance to us. Are there common clinics
that will provide testing? Also, what is ...
4 Comments, 732 Views,
40 Votes
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Safe oral sex 2/5/2005
Now I always practice safe sex with my new partners, with
that said, in your opinion, can a woman still be pleased
orally with plastic wrap or should I just skip the whole
oral experience until I get to know her.
2 Comments, 282 Views,
11 Votes
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Does any actually worry about Diseases anymore? 2/5/2005
There is a likelyhood that exists that you will make a connection
or just hook-up for some sex as a result from using this website.
Most people (well I can actually only speak for myself)
are looking for a little something on the side, however
I have read alot of profiles on AAF that advertise the willingness
to do anything with anyone. This bothers me a bit. I would
like to find a friend ...
1 Comments, 188 Views,
9 Votes
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how can u be sure 1/30/2005
how often can u realy be sure our partiner is clean...even
after they tell you or you go to get a check up with them...your
not in the dr office with them??? or can you go in?
4 Comments, 529 Views,
47 Votes
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always needed 1/27/2005
with todays people u can never be to safe or can you? what
are some way to protect urself 100%
1 Comments, 221 Views,
11 Votes
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The waiting game 1/27/2005
It is so easy to get caught up in the moment and want to be adventurist...but
just think about this- is the experience worth the restless
nights.
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I must admit, my hormones were raging one night and in a spur
of the moment act, I ate out a girl I had just met a few hours
ago. for days after, i couldn't help but fear I had contracted
an STD from this impromptu oral adventure. ...
0 Comments, 230 Views,
12 Votes
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dental dam 1/24/2005
where can you find them, because i havent been able.
1 Comments, 238 Views,
3 Votes
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el sexo anal???? Que pasa???? 1/22/2005
That is so neat....el sexo anal...wham, bam thank you senorita.
The only safe sex is sex with a nun. They haven't really
slept around alot and their pussy is blessed by God and Jesus.
Can't beat a warranty like that. So next time you wonder
about safe sex, just remember the chicks down at the nunnery
are waiting to hear from you. And believe me, they like it
deep.
0 Comments, 160 Views,
8 Votes
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condoms 1/21/2005
comming from a males perspective i prefer to use condoms
while having sex
0 Comments, 497 Views,
24 Votes
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condoms 1/18/2005
Would anybody have sex with a person, they knew had AIDS
or HIV+, if they wore a condom..? Surely not. Therefore
what is the point of condoms...
4 Comments, 108 Views,
48 Votes
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My husband hates condoms 1/17/2005
It is harder for my husband to cum or even enjoy sex when he
is wearing a condom. Now he wants to swing with other couples
and I don't want him doing anything without one. Is
there any other way?
1 Comments, 50 Views,
15 Votes
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First Oral Sex Male with Male 1/15/2005
Ok, tonight i got an offer. I have always fanasized about
oral sex with a guy. Well tonight i got an offer from a bi-guy
to meet him tomorow. I am a tad nervous tho. I know nothing
about how to give good oral sex or anything about him except
what we talked about on the internet. Do you think this is
a safe thing to do? Is there any type of caution i should take
before "meeting" with this ...
3 Comments, 492 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score |
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Anal sex with a female 1/11/2005
Ladies when having anal sex with your partners do you prefer:
Lube or no lube? Bareback or condom? I've only had anal
sex with three different partners on a fairly regular basis
an each one was different. One was condom and lube; another
was bareback and lube and the other was bareback and no lube.
4 Comments, 629 Views,
44 Votes
,3.31 Score |