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UofG_Girl 39 F
2  Articles
How to bring up using condoms!   4/3/2005

Now i like to have sex, but I have just recently broken up with my boyfriend of three years who was the first and only person i have ever slept with. Because I am on the pill and we were eachothers first and only partners, using condoms was never an issue. My plan is to now experience sex with other partners (hence why I am on this site), but i find the topic of condoms difficult to bring ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 25 Votes ,6.23 Score
There is no such thing as safe sex   3/29/2005

I know a lot has been posted about safe sex. But, in reality, there is no such thing. Some members say we should carry our STD results around with us to prove we are clean. HELLO, anybody that has taken an HIV test is told that the results are only accurate up to 3 months BEFORE the date of the test. Meaning my last HIV test, on 2/15/05, is only accurate to 11/15/04. Obviously, using a ...


0 Comments, 391 Views, 34 Votes ,6.48 Score
SuaveTallBlack 41 M
3  Articles
Condoms   3/24/2005

I find it difficult getting a condom NOT to split during sex, someone suggested they might be too small. How would I know if they were too small or not as they are suppose to be tight anyway, right?


2 Comments, 138 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Dental Dam   3/23/2005

I love oral sex - but fid it difficult to buy dental dams in local stores. Any idea why the idea of dental dam has not caught on as much as condoms? Now many people like to go downtown I guess .


3 Comments, 614 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
JacksonWICouple 51 C
8  Articles
I see condoms used , but not for blow jobs   3/23/2005

I see pictures of couples who say condoms are a must and see the same women with the guys cock in their mouth. Do you all think you cant catch something this way also. You have the mans member in your mouth and this also can give you STDs.You must use a condom for all sex and the man must use a dam for oral on a women. So I guess some of you need to wake up if you really want to practice ...


1 Comments, 712 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
is it relly safe   3/10/2005

what happens if things dont work out like you planed and get something what then you cant blame anyone but your self and the person that gave it to you


1 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
getdown1st 68 C
213  Articles
TEST RESULTS?   3/9/2005

WE ARE VERY MUCH LOOKING FORWARD INTO BRINGING ANOTHER WOMAN OR TWO INTO OUR FOLD. NOT INTERESTED IN SOMEONE NEW EACH WEEK. WE ARE TRYING OUR BEST TO BE SELECTIVE AND CAREFUL, SINCE WE ARE BOTH CLEAN, D/D FREE, STD FREE ETC.. AND WANT TO KEEP IT THAT WAY. WE DONT WANT TO INSULT ANYONE, BUT INSIST THEY ARE AS CLEAN AS WE ARE. IN AdultFriendFinder MAGAZINE "ASKING TO SEE RESULTS OF TESTING", HOW ...


3 Comments, 378 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
redswallow777 92 M
5  Articles
So how do you control the risks?   3/4/2005

I suspect we have an audience here that is, or would like to be very sexually active. What are the real risks of being active....having multiple sexual partners? <br> I have been in a monogamous relationship for many years. I know my partner and I know the risks. I am looking outside that relationship for sexual experiences but it scares me a bit. Is a condom enough to ...


1 Comments, 450 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
going bareback..   2/19/2005

well i have to say that when i am with a lady, especially at home or some place where they are easlily accessible and she wants to just go at with no condom it can almost be a turn-off. now don't get me wrong, sex with a condom can not compare with sex without a condom in terms of the sensation, but all i can think is that if you do not make me wear one, you don't make anyone else wear one ...


3 Comments, 191 Views, 30 Votes ,3.63 Score
SexVirussss 40 M
139  Articles
Important message...plz don't ignore   2/17/2005

Read it carefully and do not take it light.... <br> A very urgent message. This happened in Paris recently and may happen elsewhere also. A few weeks ago, in a movie theatre, a person felt something poking from her seat. When she got uptosee what it was, she found a needle sticking out of the seat with a note attached saying : "You have just been infected by HIV". The Disease ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 14 Votes ,6.34 Score
Sexually transmitted diseases rising   2/14/2005

I would just like to say that statistics show that the practises of safe sex are ignored, as incidents of chlamidia, gonorrhea and syphillis are on the increase.......so why dont people use condoms? The men that I have had relationships with always say that they dont like using condoms, lack of sensitivity, spontaneity etc. Has any other female experienced this? and how do they deal with ...


1 Comments, 174 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
How careful are you?   2/12/2005

So, you find a girl on the site. You meet at your designated location. Then the sex begins. After a certain period of time, you become seconds away from "spilling" inside of her. What do you do? <br> A: She's on birth control, let it flow! B: Pull out, it's too risky. C: Let her decide.


16 Comments, 691 Views, 51 Votes ,2.70 Score
AdultFriendFinder...Wrap It Up!   2/12/2005

Lets face it; a man will stick his penis anywhere a woman tells him to. It’s your prerogative to choose to have sex with or without a condom. Personally I think anyone who has sex with a man or a woman and doesn’t use a condom is playing Russian roulette with his or her lives. Unless you are in a serious relationship don’t let some man put his penis in you without a ...


3 Comments, 803 Views, 74 Votes ,8.32 Score
Condoms...who hates them?   2/10/2005

Never had to use them...hate to wear them now. How do you deal with this? Do most women insist their partners use them?


1 Comments, 28 Views, 27 Votes ,5.03 Score
Condoms a must   2/10/2005

Any woman who has unprotected sex is a bimbo. If you feel like living disease and certain death free please protect yourself.


1 Comments, 627 Views, 81 Votes ,6.45 Score
anal sex   2/9/2005

i have never had anal sex. Is there anyone out there that could inform me on how to go about to try it. my ex said it hurt when we tried an dsaid she would let me try again but never did. Any pointers


3 Comments, 478 Views, 19 Votes ,3.12 Score
Reel Bum-er   2/5/2005

I recently met a female on this site who gave me something to think about and I wonder what others might think. She had been in a relationship with a man until recently for over two years. During that time she says he is the only man she had sex with as they were supposed to be exclusive. She learned he had on several swinger's sites and was running around so she broke up with him. ...


4 Comments, 845 Views, 40 Votes ,6.59 Score
Excite6970 54 C
1  Article
Where do we go to get tested to show we're DF?   2/5/2005

My wife and I have never been tested and want to do so just so we can answer potential new friends that we are truly disease free. Niether of us feel comfortable at all with addressing this with our normal doctors due to living in small communities and knowing office personel. Discretion is the utmost of importance to us. Are there common clinics that will provide testing? Also, what is ...


4 Comments, 732 Views, 40 Votes ,4.35 Score
Squilo1000 41 M
1  Article
Safe oral sex   2/5/2005

Now I always practice safe sex with my new partners, with that said, in your opinion, can a woman still be pleased orally with plastic wrap or should I just skip the whole oral experience until I get to know her.


2 Comments, 282 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Does any actually worry about Diseases anymore?   2/5/2005

There is a likelyhood that exists that you will make a connection or just hook-up for some sex as a result from using this website. Most people (well I can actually only speak for myself) are looking for a little something on the side, however I have read alot of profiles on AAF that advertise the willingness to do anything with anyone. This bothers me a bit. I would like to find a friend ...


1 Comments, 188 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
rm_havoc_022 44 F
5  Articles
how can u be sure   1/30/2005

how often can u realy be sure our partiner is clean...even after they tell you or you go to get a check up with them...your not in the dr office with them??? or can you go in?


4 Comments, 529 Views, 47 Votes ,3.23 Score
scorpion696978 45 M
9  Articles
always needed   1/27/2005

with todays people u can never be to safe or can you? what are some way to protect urself 100%


1 Comments, 221 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
The waiting game   1/27/2005

It is so easy to get caught up in the moment and want to be adventurist...but just think about this- is the experience worth the restless nights. <br> I must admit, my hormones were raging one night and in a spur of the moment act, I ate out a girl I had just met a few hours ago. for days after, i couldn't help but fear I had contracted an STD from this impromptu oral adventure. ...


0 Comments, 230 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
chillen405 41 M
21  Articles
dental dam   1/24/2005

where can you find them, because i havent been able.


1 Comments, 238 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
el sexo anal???? Que pasa????   1/22/2005

That is so neat....el sexo anal...wham, bam thank you senorita. The only safe sex is sex with a nun. They haven't really slept around alot and their pussy is blessed by God and Jesus. Can't beat a warranty like that. So next time you wonder about safe sex, just remember the chicks down at the nunnery are waiting to hear from you. And believe me, they like it deep.


0 Comments, 160 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
fiestycouple4 38 C
1  Article
condoms   1/21/2005

comming from a males perspective i prefer to use condoms while having sex


0 Comments, 497 Views, 24 Votes ,1.99 Score
rm_WhiteonBrown 57 M
2  Articles
condoms   1/18/2005

Would anybody have sex with a person, they knew had AIDS or HIV+, if they wore a condom..? Surely not. Therefore what is the point of condoms...


4 Comments, 108 Views, 48 Votes
My husband hates condoms   1/17/2005

It is harder for my husband to cum or even enjoy sex when he is wearing a condom. Now he wants to swing with other couples and I don't want him doing anything without one. Is there any other way?


1 Comments, 50 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
First Oral Sex Male with Male   1/15/2005

Ok, tonight i got an offer. I have always fanasized about oral sex with a guy. Well tonight i got an offer from a bi-guy to meet him tomorow. I am a tad nervous tho. I know nothing about how to give good oral sex or anything about him except what we talked about on the internet. Do you think this is a safe thing to do? Is there any type of caution i should take before "meeting" with this ...


3 Comments, 492 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
SplitTailLuvr 71 M
10  Articles
Anal sex with a female   1/11/2005

Ladies when having anal sex with your partners do you prefer: Lube or no lube? Bareback or condom? I've only had anal sex with three different partners on a fairly regular basis an each one was different. One was condom and lube; another was bareback and lube and the other was bareback and no lube.


4 Comments, 629 Views, 44 Votes ,3.31 Score