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Winks.... Won't Get Fooled Again   2/7/2005

I have been a member on a number to sites such as AdultFriendFinder. They all have a similiar feature, the introduction. At AdultFriendFinder they are called winks. The wink is supposed to be used as a barometer to determine if someone might be interested in you. Do people really repond to winks or are they just a ploy to get people to join as a paying member? Any thoughts, opinions or personal experiences regarding ...


8 Comments, 317 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
why oh why   2/6/2005

you take the time to search, you find , you send out e-mails , you get them in your friends section, then you never hear from them again, why why, i they are interested in you enough to become a friend, then why no replies, girls , woman, if your not interested dont join up on friends, we keep trying to get ahold of you then we starty to feel like stalkers, and that is not why we are here, ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_punkboy82 40 M
1  Article
mad nice guy.   2/5/2005

ok so why do girls only go for bad boys. Guys who will treat them bad, piss them off, and leave them. Im a nice guy. I open doors, pull out chairs, and help put her jacket on. I seem to always end up in the "just a friend" catagory. So just what makes the cocky agagent jerk get all the laides? I would love for some one to tell me.


8 Comments, 178 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
copycat   2/3/2005

hmmmmmm....some people obviously don't have any advice to give themselves so they take what somebody else has said, re-write it a little and then post it. I just had this happened to me. No big deal really but it looks ridiculous. The person is saying the exact same thing I'm saying but in different words. I doubt her thoughts on the subject could be the same as mine. How about some ...


4 Comments, 336 Views, 16 Votes ,3.86 Score
As it should be...   2/3/2005

A few days ago I made contact with an AdultFriendFinder female. We winked, checked out each others profiles, exchanged contact info and then ACTUALLY SPOKE. Though I find Cupid to be generally unreliable in his matchological science, we hit it off. After some laughs the convo steered round to "so, when can I see you?" <br> "I'm putting my shoes on right now." She said. "Ha-ha, no really..." I ...


4 Comments, 268 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Why the deception? Oh wait, I know why!!!   2/3/2005

It came to my attention within a week of joining this site that a very large percentage of the profiles for women seeking men on this site are nothing more than bait for some of the men here to bite on for the purpose of making money for some website. This has to be the lowest form of fraud I've personally ever seen, and I speak from some real experience on this one. <br> I ...


11 Comments, 468 Views, 15 Votes ,6.50 Score
rm_EbAndIv69 58 C
7  Articles
IMC   2/3/2005

Why is it some members never have the nerve to tell you that you are not what they are looking for. But then it seems that alot dont read profiles. Then send you an IM and they have to "go" suddenly? We are all adults here (except for afew). Why do you send an IM when you know you have to leave in the next 2 mins? Before we reply to an IM we always read the profiles and it doesnt hurt, ...


1 Comments, 126 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_gene829 55 M
1  Article
What do women want from us?   2/3/2005

Ok I not a english major so if my grammer and sentence structure is not to your liking, oh well. What is the deal with AdultFriendFinder these days? Every woman wants some guy built like a greek god, with a 12inch dick, that can fuck for 2 days straight without busting a nut. Oh yea he also has to be a sensitive boy scout, with a rough side, that can write poetry one minute and rescue her from her ...


6 Comments, 216 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
bigball23196 57 C
1  Article
replys to emails   2/3/2005

why is it that when we take time and interest to look at other members and decide to send them an email trying to make contact and maybe meet up, the other person or couple can't even be bothered to send a reply even a short no thanks would be nice , so come on all you out there who get emails please reply even a no thanks could make someones day.


6 Comments, 206 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Ladies and gents help me out I'm new!!!!   2/2/2005

I'm curious of what to expect from this site and how to get more profile views and a better replies. I seriously would like to know how swamped you ladies are with emails probably 90% of the profiles I view I can't even understand what her agenda is. Now I understand that a lot of people are shy, I for one am not. Guess I need some help with spotting the fakers or not so serious people. ...


4 Comments, 107 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Sidney69 61 M
9  Articles
Cease Fire, Please!!!   2/1/2005

What the hell is going on here lately? In the recent weeks, the level of hostility on this board has been off the charts. I'm not talking about healthy disagreements or differences of opinion, i'm talking about outright hostility, bitterness, anger, name-calling, and attacks on people's character. Look, I enjoy a spirited debate as much as anyone else, and we're all entitled to our ...


8 Comments, 451 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
reading ads.   2/1/2005

Ok I know that this is kind of stupid to say, but why is it that when someone contacts you and says that they are interested and then while talk to them they ask something that you already made clear it becomes an issue? do people actually ready peoples ads. Am I wrong??


4 Comments, 147 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Generalizations   1/31/2005

Quite often there are questions posted in the various sections that read something like: "What do women want?", What age do women want their men to be?", What size dick do women like?", "What are women on here looking for?" and so on.... <br> Guys, have you yet not figured out that NO one person is alike, think alike, walk alike, talk alike, look alike? Why would women in ...


2 Comments, 175 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
A RAVE about the people on AdultFriendFinder   1/30/2005

Yes, a rave... I'm being positive instead of negative. Just wanted to make sure that was clear <br> Since coming to this site, I have had my eyes opened about the site and the people here. My attitudes and opinions about the people on here have done a complete 180 degree turn. Ever since my first posting, there have been a number of people who have responded to my letters and ...


3 Comments, 207 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_powerVB 64 M
1  Article
Profile pics!   1/30/2005

As an AdultFriendFinder member I enjoy browsing profiles from time to time. I guess my big pet peeve is with respect to the pics posted. I have come across numerous profiles with pics clearly downloaded from internet sites and have even come across numerous profiles with folks all using the same pic! Come on folks!! If we want this site to work lets stop hiding behind fake pics so we know who we are ...


3 Comments, 198 Views, 14 Votes ,6.50 Score
response to hotthousewife   1/29/2005

the rant and rave was great! it would be even better if she didnt leave out the reason why i called her whitetrash. according to her, it was because she told me in a nice and truthfull way that she wasnt interested. and me not being able to deal with rejection called her names. hahahhahah . no. she left out the part of where she replies to me and says i look like a psycho who took a picture ...


6 Comments, 393 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Cyber ass holes and stalkers.   1/29/2005

Hold onto your shorts ladies, Guys do cyber stalk other guys. I must admit that I was shocked that I now have a guy that want's to kick my ass. Why you ask? Well I stuck up for a lady friend of mine after he called her a and a . Yes she loves sex and likes getting freaky when she can, all of us that talk to her know this about her and have no problem with it. If some do they just keep ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
Rant on talking like a first grader   1/28/2005

Man, I was getting my oil changed the other day, and these girls come into the tune up place. They aren't even attractive and they are doing to whole valley girl thing. It was insane! They couldn't go a sentence without using the work "like." " I mean, like so, like I said to him, like, ummmm, like we are so totally breaking up." I am not really a stickler for looks or grammar, but oh ...


1 Comments, 111 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Unreliable "Friends"   1/28/2005

How many of you people out there seem to have the same problem? The minute you think youve found a decent 'buddy' it turns out you were wrong. I dont want to be your g/f, I dont want to be your wife, I just want you to fk the hell out of me on a regular basis. Not JUST when its convienent for you. Why the hell cant I find someone mature enough to do this? I cant find someone willing ...


5 Comments, 216 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Why do people accept invites, then never contact you again.   1/28/2005

That's my problem and I just don't understand it. I understand not replying (the women are overwhelmed with emails), but I wish a simple declination would be cool or simple email, no thanks. However, I just don't understand why a woman would accept an invite and then never talk to you either by email or IM (when paged). Thanks for anyone who has answers.


3 Comments, 109 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_FandY2003 51 C
15  Articles
Still receiving invites from Single Males   1/27/2005

We kept on receiving "invites to join my network" from single males. The last thing we don't want to do is to turn down any invites or ignore the person. Now before any single males here get offended, we included a portion of what we have written in our profile >>>SINGLE/LONE MALES PLS. NO NEED to contact us (nothing personal) but I'm not ready yet for a "menage`a trois" in an ...


1 Comments, 160 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Insecure males......   1/27/2005

Drive me nuts. All the time men are complaining about women who worry about their appearance and have self esteem issues. What about you fellas? Do you know how many times I have to reassure my partners? Am I expected to just do this and ignore the fact that its just as irritating for me to have to deal with it as it is for a guy to hear a woman call herself fat? Enough already. If I ...


4 Comments, 155 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
Race Issues   1/27/2005

Alright let's rant shall we? <br> Well I'm writing this because I want to say that as a Black Female..there is nothing more peeving to me than men who are non-Black (whatever race you may be) that will email me looking for a "hookup" with a "sista". <br> And I always know because if you look at their profile, then you can see that that little box that's marked "race" is ...


14 Comments, 762 Views, 22 Votes ,6.73 Score
shave 'at dawg an' teach it ta hunt...   1/26/2005

Seriously guys, some of you need to learn how to either take a good pic or have some one else do it for you! & (men) trim that ugly beast!!! You'd be suprised how much longer & more attractive it will make your little man look. PS - It wouldn't hurt if you all actually struck a pose in those pics either...Just take ALL the clothes off for a min & pose for the camera already!!!


5 Comments, 154 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
mgood4anyfun 50 C
1  Article
pictures on AdultFriendFinder   1/25/2005

i have notice that some of the pics on AdultFriendFinder are the same for different people. cant any of them use their own pics instead of some one elses. are they lying about who they are. are they ashame of what they got. can anyone tell me.


6 Comments, 202 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Network Pic's   1/23/2005

I am soooooo tired of putting new pictures on my profile and having them approved, and still have to see my old pic's are still on my profile!! Or the new one's will be on for a day, just to have the old one's back the next day!! What Gives???? Recently I deleted my main pic completely and it is still showing up weeks after, So basicly I have no control over my web page...does anybody ...


2 Comments, 130 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
Sex or Romance what's your view?   1/23/2005

There are a lot of articles on here that seem to revolve around mens high sex drive and womens lack of it. Is it really that Women lose the sex drive .... or is it that men Men lose the romance drive.... There used to be an old song with the lyrics "a man chases a girl until she catches him* Does she catch him and then lose interest or does he stop chasing?


3 Comments, 74 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_johnbouy49 75 M
5  Articles
Lakies, does seeing a profile photo of a Guy's Penis really influence you to Contact him?   1/23/2005

I’m sorry, I’m sure that this question has been asked many times before, but do women really like (enjoy) seeing all these photos of mens Johnsons as profile photos on AdultFriendFinder??? I’m really interested in hearing the opinions of you ladies here at AdultFriendFinder! I’ve got to tell you that as a straight male, I really don’t care to see all these penises as I’m reading through the ...


8 Comments, 262 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_EasyEd694fun 57 M
18  Articles
Single No shows   1/23/2005

Ok all you single guys that keep standing up the people you agree to meet-STOP IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. It is hard enough to get people, especially couples, to meet with single guys. But to have to be punished because some jerk failed to show for a scheduled meet is making things way more difficult than they need to be. I for the life of me cannot imagine why a person would go to all the ...


1 Comments, 116 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
rm_blknght184 33 M
1  Article
Choices   1/22/2005

The world is a complicated place. Now, I know with that one line, those six words, I lost some of my audience. There is an extremely good possibility that you, dear reader, are thinking something like: “You’re born, you live, you die. What’s so complicated?” or “The world is simple; ‘survival of the fittest.’” Or you may have another ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score