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rm_hotbtweenlgs 69 C
24  Articles
When you know he is slipping away...   2/25/2005

When You Know "HE" is Slipping Away <br> <br> 10 Questions To Ask Yourself about the relationship... <br> 1) Are you making all the phone calls to the other person? 2) Does he tell you the truth invariably? 3) Have you been "stood up" without a reasonable cause? 4) Do you fear he is slipping away, & is that causing you to "grab and hold"? 5) Are ...


2 Comments, 411 Views, 37 Votes ,2.90 Score
purring_mouse 31 F
1  Article
My break up   2/24/2005

Sorry about the length but I have to vent…. <br> At the nice age of 18 I met how I thought was the man of my dreams. The man that took my breath away, my virginity, and then my freedom. He was 28 at the time, and I thought the world of him. Stupid me. We dated for three years exactly. He introduced me to the life of S&M. I really grew to love the life stile. The ...


1 Comments, 214 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_jaco321 38 M
1  Article
one sided relationships   2/23/2005

I was in a one sided relationship for 5 years my girlfriend was not interested in what I wanted to do or my feelings. I had a nightmare as I did not want to splite up as I was in love with her and she did not seem bothered if she seen me or not. It was hard to split up[ as part of me thinks she might have changed. Anyone go any veiws on this subject ???


3 Comments, 174 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
The Best Way   2/22/2005

Wats the best way to break up with someone??? Any good methods


0 Comments, 137 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
cal_man78 63 M
4  Articles
After married 3 times is it right to go back to the first one?   2/21/2005

My ex wife has been married 3 times, I was the 3rd. I adopted and raised the she had from the first marriage. She was left with the and pregnant with the . At the time of the sons graduation from high school she wanted to find the sperm doner and tell him that the was graduating. Well during all this time he has never called for any reason, never paid his support, no contact what so ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_20NWILD 46 M
3  Articles
Ladies first   2/18/2005

In past relationships, I have found it very difficult to break up when I know it's over. I am a good guy, and I don't like hurting other people's feelings, so I usually try to let the female do the breaking up. Does anyone feel that this is a good or bad idea?


2 Comments, 130 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
rm_fcfighter12 39 M
5  Articles
Best way to break up   2/18/2005

so ive been going out with this girl for 3 months and weve kinda drifted apart i mean i still love her alot but shes got alot going on in her life right now and we dont get to spend alot of time together which sucks cause i love her alot but ive gotten to the point where i just want to kind've be done with it.i as just wanderin what anyone would do in my place?


0 Comments, 107 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
What should I do?   2/16/2005

I went out with a girl for 4 years. We were in love, and when we broke up it ruined my life. I was a big piece of shit until almost 2 years later, I started dating this girl I knew from college. She made me feel great...as great as I had with my girlfriend before. Well about a month goes by and she tells me that right before we had started dating, she was with this guy and she had gotten ...


1 Comments, 161 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Just get it over?   2/13/2005

all aspects of our relationships, permanent or temporary, what is wrong with being honest? We have to use "handles" because society requires us to hide our identities. In writing our profiles, do we generally describe who we really are? I doubt it, there's always some inflated ego involved, it's human nature! Would you REALLY respond, IF everyone gave a "true" description of themselves? Be ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
rm_DandA98404 64 C
2  Articles
Deliberate Honesty, Teaching Your Partner To Swing!   2/8/2005

Introducing this type of lifestyle to your partner can be very stressfull if you're not sure how to go about it. Yet, in some cases, not letting them know in some way, that you would like to try sex with others, could do more dammage than telling them. <br> I have "trained" (haha) 3 women in my life (so far) to enjoy this lifestyle. I will tell you about the latest, my wife! ...


2 Comments, 193 Views, 20 Votes ,3.12 Score
EX-BF found on AdultFriendFinder   2/6/2005

Alright, the beginning. I was with this guy for alm9ost three years. We broke up in September, here it is, the month of feb. I stumbled across his profile long ago. I know it's him, and all I want to do is say hi, but afraid. I still (no joke) find myself having dreams about him. Don't know what do. However, in November, he contacted me, crying to me and saying how much he missed me ...


5 Comments, 526 Views, 30 Votes ,3.44 Score
rm_enid55 68 F
2  Articles
Long distance obsession...   2/6/2005

We started out as QF's on line you know the way it is... dart in and steal a moments pleasure.Then we stopped to chat.... it was good.. we discovered we had some things in common .... the QF's turned to lingering passion through Email.. then something triggered an angry response .. and all seemed lost hours of tears .. and searching for that name... magically it appeared , and we were ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
Can you love again?   2/5/2005

My girlfriend of about a year broke up with me on Halloween. We talked and tried to be friends. In December she told me she didnt love me anymore. I became suicidal. We tried talking again and recently I found out she fucked a guy within weeks of us breaking up. How can I move on cause she is all I think about. I still love her deeply and think I always will. Any help will be very ...


5 Comments, 205 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_NoResolution 38 M
1  Article
Ex girlfriend question   2/5/2005

So my ex girlfriend broke with me at the beginning of january. I've been trying to deal with it for some time now. We've been hanging out all the time and talking for hours on end on the phone, and then she asks me if we can cuddle, but that she doesn't want to make out. So I said sure, because I havn't had any kind of embrace for a month. We've done this twice now, and last night she ...


2 Comments, 148 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
the first one i met on A.F.F   1/30/2005

WELL HERE GOES I HAVENT BEEN ON AdultFriendFinder FOR THAT LONG AND I THOUGHT I HAD MET A GREAT GUY MRJRD82 BUT AFTER BEING WITH HIM FOR A MONTH AND HAVING HIM MEET MY 3 HE TURNED OUT TO BE A REAL DIP SHIT. HE MADE PROMISES HE COULDNT KEEP AND SAID HE DIDNT MIND THE FACT THAT I HAD 3 GREAT WHICH BY THE WAY HE USED AS AN EXCUSE TO DUMP ME , HE SAID HE COULDNT HANDLE THE RESPONISABILTY OF HAVING SOME ONE ...


4 Comments, 255 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
luvs2eatpussy56 68 M
7  Articles
Why is it so hard   1/30/2005

Why does it always seem that breaking up is so difficult. My first wife was the most abusive bitch that I've ever known. She was a drug addict that totally ruined my life. She beat me and even tried to kill me. Yet it took me 2 years to get her out of my mind. I couldn't believe that I missed her that much. I should of been happy that she was gone.


0 Comments, 108 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
ex bf problems   1/29/2005

my ex boyfriend was really abusive and now i love the guy im with but because of my past i get very upset emotionally very easily and this makes him feel that he is making me sad, he is not but when i tell him this he doent understand, what do you think i should do?


3 Comments, 177 Views, 17 Votes ,3.27 Score
Not again   1/29/2005

Things never seem to easy in the romance arena, at least not for me. I was married for thirty years until one night when I came home from work my wife announced that she wanted me to leave. I never did find out why because every time I asked she had a differnt reason. <br> About a year later I met a woman that I had always found attractive, but never did pursue it because I was ...


0 Comments, 103 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
1HammerSwinger 54 F
1  Article
Having a hard time with it either way.   1/29/2005

I have been dating someone for almost 6 years. I love him with all my heart, but... He is arrogant and obstanant sometimes and lately we kept fighting. I resently broke up with him. I was determined in my reasons and conviction. I said to myself that I didn't want to be at 10 years with the same problems which he refused to see let a lone communicate with me to resolve. He finally realized ...


1 Comments, 368 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
MissxHate 37 F
1  Article
Should've known....   1/28/2005

I just ended a long relationship that I'd been in w/ a guy who worshiped the ground I walked on and wanted to spend every second w/ me which got kinda old but then he started to accuse me of cheating on him. Well.......we saw eachother every single day we'd been dating except two days....TWO. And on those two days we weren't together, he slept w/ his ex. how pathetic is that? he couldn't ...


6 Comments, 185 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
kandieapplered04 36 F
3  Articles
to keep him or not   1/27/2005

a young girl meets this atractive older guy gets to know him and start to like him but then finds out he is much older than he led to believe. now she is torn, her family is already skeptical at the age thought he was and he is a little clingy. but she likes him alot but there is this cuter younger guy who is interested and believes in trust...ummmm.. to keep him or not to keep him, that is ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
My Lover the Killer   1/26/2005

Thanks for all your votes and commnets on mu other storys. I dont get to much time to write i am always at work. hope you enjoy this one.. <br> <br> I was sitting on the porch when John drove up in his red mustang. I ran in the house to make sure my makeup was perfect. Today was our 3 year anniversy. I loved John for himself not his money, looks, or car. I went outside ...


4 Comments, 262 Views, 20 Votes ,2.23 Score
Leave them alone   1/26/2005

There comes a time when you may break up with that significant other. Please, make it easier on everyone and just leave them alone after the fact. More problems arise when you keep contacting them for whatever reason. Leave your friends and family out of it, they don't care and will probably make things worse.


2 Comments, 137 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
LOOKING BACK   1/26/2005

TODAY I LOOK BACK AND I SEE A NEW WOMAN...I SEE A GIRL WHO HAS PASSED THRU HEART BREAK AND STILL SHE STANDS TALL....I THOUGHT I HAD LOST EVERYTHING BUT TODAY LOOKING BACK AT LAST NITE I SEE I HAD ALL I EVER WANTED....I WAS ONLY FOOLISH TO BELEIVE HE WON'T LEAVE ME FOR ANOTHER LADY... AFTERALL I DID FOR HIM...BUT NOW ITS CLEAR THAT GUYS WILL ALWAYS LEAVE U FOR SOMEONE NEW EVEN IF U LOVE ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Didn't take her too long   1/26/2005

I was with this girl for three and a half years, we had such an amazing time together, went on plenty of sexy holidays and were constantly getting told by people we were the perfect couple. Thats what I thought until a few months ago. A guy started to work at the same place as my girlfriend. She introduced me to him and I even shook the guys hand. After work she was always talking about ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
Love sux, Why can't people be real and nice to each other?   1/24/2005

Just getting out of a relationship myself, I wonder if I will ever find somebody better. She will probably be crazy successful and should she actually exercise then she will be absolutely stunning. I look back at our relationship and I will admit that I could have trusted her more but at the same time, she gave me a shitload of reasons not to trust her. Things got really bad at the end, and ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Do I stay or do I go?   1/23/2005

I recently found out that my boyfriend of four years had cheated on me last year. I found their emails back and forth to each other. It was him telling her how much he missed her and he wouldn't get to have any fun today because he wouldn't be able to see her. He claims it lasted for a short time and nothing happened between them. He says he realized what he wanted, that was me, and ...


6 Comments, 303 Views, 21 Votes ,2.63 Score
rm_JCBR27 30 M
2  Articles
thing's you dont wanna do   1/23/2005

if you're going to break up with ANYBODY, you certainly dont want to either insult them or do something that will hurt them badly. No matter how bad that person was to you, you'll always know that you did as best you could. It just wasn't meant to be.


1 Comments, 98 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
best break up   1/21/2005

we quarel and told each other to go our way...but suddenly she take off her cloths and i cant resist with a huge hard on....so she suck my cock and we did 69.....we had sex 6 times that nite and still be frens and fuck each other now and then.....


2 Comments, 238 Views, 19 Votes ,2.07 Score
flat wife-bit_h!!!   1/20/2005

I "helped" my best male friend.Sure I knew stuff about her, I was his closest friend.She was not just hairy, flat, unclean, but nasty as shit.She was a man's worst nightmare.NOTHING he did was ever up to her standards.He came to me frequently, sometimes in tears, sometimes angry.Finally, he called it quits and came to my house.I opened the door to this guy and he embraced me-very tightly.I ...


0 Comments, 254 Views, 24 Votes ,3.36 Score