Sex Toy Mishaps... how often do they happen??

9/24/2016

Earlier today, it crossed my mind that sex toy mishaps
have to occur from time to time. Yes, it has also happened
to me a few years ago. So after searching online, using google
it seems it is not uncommon for sex toy injuries to happen.






The Sexology institute, yes my dear, there is such an institute,
quoted an academic article with these facts:


Sex toy use is on the rise! Which means so are sex toy injuries.
Despite an increasing acceptance of sex toys, a continued
lack of sexual education, particularly around the use
of these devices, has led to some painful yet largely preventable
mishaps.


The Frequency of Sex Toy Injuries


Believe it or not, in 2009 Russell Griffin and Gerald McGwin
from the University of Alabama School of Public Health
conducted a population-based survey of sex toy injuries.
Their research, which appeared in the Journal of Sex and
Marital Therapy, was the first of its kind to ever be published.
Griffin and McGwin analyzed reporting data from hospital
emergency rooms. What they found was that between 1995
and 2006,


6, 799 people were treated in emergency departments
for sex toy injuries Men were more likely to have a sex toy injury People between the ages of 30-39 had the highest rate of
sex toy injuries A vibrator was involved in 74% of injuries, 13% involved
dildos, 2% rings, and 11% other Over three-fourths (78 of injuries were anorectal,
18% vaginal/penile, and 4% other





Although these statistics are eye opening, they may not
even represent the whole picture. Welcome to friends and benefits! New members
or may involve items that have other primary uses (think
toothbrush, screwdriver, or any other number of household
items) and thus would not show up in this data.


Types of Sex Toy Injuries


Sex toy injuries can range from the mild and minor to the
down right ridiculous. Take for example this news story
of a man who attached a sex toy to a saber blade saw and then
inserted the power tool into his partner. Needless to say,
this did not end well. Obviously this is an extreme case
and most sex toy injuries are not this outrageous.


One of the most common sex toy injuries is discomfort caused
by vibrators. One study found that nearly 30% of women who
had used a vibrator had experienced a negative side effect
such as numbness, irritation, or swelling. In almost all
cases, the discomfort was short-lived and relatively
minor.


Another common sex toy injury is an item stuck in the rectum.
Whether it just slips or muscle contractions pull it in,
“lost items” have the potential to obstruct the colon
or damage tissue.


While not as common, cock ring injuries have the potential
to occur as well. Cock rings are designed to be placed at
the base of the penis as a means to trap blood in the shaft
and enhance a man’s erection. If the ring is attached
too tightly, it can be very difficult to get off, especially
if the penis is engorged after ejaculation. In addition
to being painful, a stuck cock ring can lead to blackened
skin or gangrene.


How to Prevent Sex Toy Injuries


The best way to prevent sex toy injuries is to be mindful
of the intended purpose of the toy. As sexologist Carol
Queen, PhD states, “a perfectly safe small vibrator
without a base becomes dangerous when used as an anal insertion
device.” Simply put, you should only use a sex toy for
its designed purpose.


Further, any sex toy used for insertion, be it vaginal or
anal, should be easily retrievable. As mentioned above,
one of the most common sex toy injuries is an item stuck in
the rectum. This can be particularly dangerous if the item
is a vibrator, as they have motors that can overheat and
cause serious pain or injury. Toys with a flared base can
help prevent it from getting “lost.”


For females using vibrators, physical therapist Miriam
Graham recommends taking it easy on the clitoris. Constant
vibration on the clitoris can lead to pain and discomfort.
Graham suggests trying a vibrator with varying intensity
settings or placing a barrier, such as a sheet or underwear,
between the vibrator and the clitoris.


It is also important to clean your sex toys regularly. Some
cleaning products exist specifically for sex toys. If
you don’t have access to these products, soap and warm
water will usually do the trick. Some silicone and Pyrex
toys can even be run through the dishwasher. Just make sure
they don’t have any electrical components.


Proper Use is Key


Sex toys, when used properly, can be the source of immense
pleasure and can help greatly enhance a relationship.
It is imperative, however, that sex toys be used only for
their intended purpose, and please, never attach them
to power tools!


Duh, yes it would not and does not surprise me if some people
(like myself) never report a minor
inconvenience, some pain and ice to save the embarrassment
of going to an ER with my cock on ice.