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Snk4u22 40 C
2  Articles
Body conscious of curves / nervous for first meet   7/20/2019

I’m a 38 year old female and for years now I’ve been body conscious and I am over weight for my height. This put me off finding a relationship at first but I gained the confidence and put myself out there. I’ve now met my soul mate and even though he is of slim build and got one gorgeous body he has never been bothered about mine and loved me for who I am. Since being with him I’ve lost 3 ...


12 Comments, 78 Views, 21 Votes ,3.37 Score
chat for free members   7/20/2019

did AdultFriendFinder change the rules? I use to get 3 free chats per day now I get zero? any thoughts?


2 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
chat for free members   7/20/2019

did AdultFriendFinder change the rules? I use to get 3 free chats per day now I get zero? any thoughts?


3 Comments, 12 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Indydude77 27 M
5  Articles
Point getting   7/18/2019

How to get points? Write this article.


1 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
hornymale3871 37 M
5  Articles
dating   7/17/2019

So i decided to go back into the dating pool and i been dirvorced for three years what has changed


0 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
DickYouDown6937 37 M
4  Articles
The slow death of casual sex on the internet (not including hookup apps)   7/17/2019

First it was the demise of craigslist. <br><br> Now, AdultFriendFinder has removed the ability of free users to send a couple of free messages each day. I'm not complaining, I get their business model. I've even spent more than a couple hundred dollars on here. The problem is this: too many fake profiles and bots, some of which are endorsed by the site itself and not someone trying to get ...


2 Comments, 24 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
all the points   7/16/2019

points points points points points points


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
Wolfenstein52 40 M
7  Articles
Ignorance of men being gay   7/15/2019

Why do some people have to be rude and talk down or bad to someone who likes something different. We need to be happy for one another and talk up and stop being so fucking negative... I'm not gay or bi but I have friends that are and theres no reason hating or going against someone else... were men.. we dont need to talk down or fuck up someone else's vibe or nut... if u dont got nothing ...


2 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
pokey2376 48 M
7  Articles
oral sex   7/9/2019

why is it so hard to find someone who just wants oral sex?


3 Comments, 26 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
Daddys_Girl209 52 C
54  Articles
A Partner with Anxiety or PTSD is a Fuckin' Rock Star.   7/6/2019

This is a subject I feel passionately about in part because in my life I've had several friends and lovers who battled with mental illness and their struggles humbled me. ​ ​ Also I genuinely feel it's a man's role empower the people in his life and the one thing I hate the most is when someone senselessly feels less than simply because of their age or weight or in this case ...


5 Comments, 42 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
Prylo191 41 M
5  Articles
Waste of points   7/6/2019

What makes me mad is gold members who wrote u and u respond and they won't respond back. Why waste my points and time if ur not going to respond back


1 Comments, 17 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Blocked Member List Tutorial   7/4/2019

BLOCK THEM! <br><br> It's the one tool users gave against those who they don't want to deal with on here. But what you may not realize is that when you block someone, it doesn't completely block them. You will still be viewable and accessible to that user. <br><br> So how do you block them completely? <br><br> Well, by using your Block Member List. ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Daddys_Girl209 52 C
54  Articles
How to be a Good Voyeur at Events (and What to Never Ever do)   7/3/2019

unfortunately writing this because someone made my scene this weekend less awesome by being an intrusive ass. So writing for anyone new to events who may read this and not know what to NOT do. <br><br> (Because this is fetlife I have to premise this with this is all my opinion.) <br><br> The goal when voyeuring should ALWAYS be to enjoy watching the scene without making ...


7 Comments, 53 Views, 30 Votes ,4.51 Score
jbernsy 41 M
1  Article
point points   7/2/2019

Just wondering does anyone really want meet on here? Seems pretty hard...


2 Comments, 21 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
points   7/2/2019

need more points all of the points.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Snococouple123 48 C
5  Articles
Site   7/2/2019

Does it seem that there is a lot of fake profiles on AdultFriendFinder, they need to clean them up


1 Comments, 16 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
Staying Safe   6/30/2019

If you do not want to tell anyone about a secret meeting...Write/type up and date everything you know about the person your meeting...name, what site you met, their user ID from the site, phone number, print there picture...place all into an envelope and leave in a place in your room that it can be easily found should something bad happens


2 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
Lickyounow246 46 M
1  Article
Licking   6/30/2019

I love licking...I can just lick for hours..anyone else love to lick for really really long periods of time?


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
Who doesn’t need points these days!   6/30/2019

As a starving artist in my younger years I learned that being Davy as a consumer is a skill set that every person should develop! <br><br> Let’s discuss the best strategy to get points on this site!


3 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Who doesn’t need points these days!   6/30/2019

As a starving artist in my younger years I learned that being Davy as a consumer is a skill set that every person should develop! <br><br> Let’s discuss the best strategy to get points on this site!


1 Comments, 12 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
ahmedfox1985 34 M
1  Article
anal play advice   6/28/2019

You hopefully already know the basics: ALWAYS use lube, never put something that was in your butt in your mouth or vagina, and butt plugs are your friend. But there's so much more to know about anal play, and so here, several sexperts break down their best anal foreplay tips for both first-timers and experienced butt travelers. Happy butt stuff 1. Relax those booty muscles. There are a bunch ...


6 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
markuk86 55 M
3  Articles
Query about chatting   6/27/2019

How do you get the feature to work properly? Does it work better for gold members than standard members? Can anyone provide advice on how to get the most of this feature please?


3 Comments, 16 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
Cltn931 30 M
1  Article
Thoughts about a sugar momma...   6/27/2019

I have been thinking about looking for a momma but I am a little nervous to do it. Does anyone have any advice?


1 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Daddys_Girl209 52 C
54  Articles
A How To Guide for submissives wanting to serve   6/27/2019

I once had a Dominant who made it a point to ask regularly whether I still chose to serve them. <br><br> It was always a paralysing question. I thought at the time that this Dominant was my forever Dominant. How could I even contemplate saying something that might upset or displease them? What if they decided to turn me aside? <br><br> Instead of encouraging me to think, ...


2 Comments, 14 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
Standards, i can help you stop wasting chat invites.   6/25/2019

I'm more than happy to teach you a few ways to communicate without ending up wasting invites on the wrong people. It takes about a half hour to set up and you will have a semi private room to get to know each other in. If you are interested join the topical group under religion called staunch atheists. You can read my profile there and you can join. If I'm on I'll be right there if ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
What are other hook up sites/apps?   6/23/2019

So I'm slowly but surely hitting the wall on finding no one else to meet in my area. It's unfortunate, but it's happening. So I wanted to ask, are there any other sites/apps for hooking up or fwb around? Tinder and other basic apps I know, but what about anything new drawing in a younger crowd (say 18-35)?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
nite_axn 39 M
5  Articles
beware   6/23/2019

when people are looking for fun mates in sites like this one itself, it is very important the person you find is a genuine person. a lot of people from all over the world misuse such platforms to scam lonely people off their ..so my advice to the general public is to be aware of the people you are connecting with...if you just notice some signs it might be a scam, just walk out...thats the ...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
billfla5 71 M
8  Articles
Advice for web dating site   6/21/2019

When chatting with anyone online that is unknown to you best for you is to. If you are going to meet as I have done in the past is at a public place, maybe meet for coffee. Talk and see if there might be something there for you, be prepared to walk away if the situation is not what you expected. And always choose a place that is public and you are comfortable with...be safe


0 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
billfla5 71 M
8  Articles
Advice for web dating site   6/21/2019

When chatting with anyone online that is unknown to you best for you is to. If you are going to meet as I have done in the past is at a public place, maybe meet for coffee. Talk and see if there might be something there for you, be prepared to walk away if the situation is not what you expected. And always choose a place that is public and you are comfortable with...be safe


2 Comments, 10 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
DickYouDown6937 37 M
4  Articles
Have you ever fallen in love with a FWB?   6/20/2019

Recently, I met someone on here and we agreed to just be strictly platonic friends and fuck buddies. After having sex with her for months, I caught a bad case of feelings for her. Oops. What approach do you take to keep yourself from falling for someone if you've been having a sexual relationship with them for an extended period of time?


1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score