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First date  

LazyDaisy2019 55F
31 posts
2/16/2019 2:28 pm
First date

Do you expect sex on the first date?
Of course, this is why we are here.
I hope for it.
I am so scared that might even not show up.
We must connect mentally before getting physical.
No sex, no date, sorry.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/16/2019 6:37 pm

I never expect sex on the first date with the local female members here. I have found that by ignoring the subject completely it is usually brought up by the woman I'm with . . . when she is comfortable with it. More often than not that has resulted in sex - on the first meet.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


LazyDaisy2019 replies on 2/18/2019 6:12 am:
This is very true!

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/16/2019 8:19 pm

You're not on a date with anyone , until you've met them and want to be on a "Date" with them.

When you agree to a "Date" , being that you are of legal age now, you are agreeing to having sex with that person.

Straight men don't invite women on a date to find out if she'll have sex with him. No. ...... He invites her to meet , or hangout with him, to determine if she is willing to have sex with him [date him].. After about 1 or 3 times hanging out after meeting....and there's no sex happening... he should walk away... Geez, almost 50... you should know what men want when he invites you out... by now.


LazyDaisy2019 replies on 2/17/2019 2:15 pm:
If he only bothers raising his ass for a date to get a pussy instantly he is even worse than animals...even dogs dont fck without chemistry... the Q is: is chemistry enough reason to have sex with a stranger? sometimes it is, especially if you are drunk or went out to hunt...

Deepfeelins 49M

2/17/2019 10:56 am

I hope for it, but the chemistry has to be there or it is a no go.


LazyDaisy2019 replies on 2/18/2019 6:09 am:
I never have expectations when going on a date and find it embarassing when the other party does.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/17/2019 10:53 pm

If he only bothers raising his ass for a date to get a pussy..... "Dating" means getting laid. If he invites you on a date... his intention is to have sex with you.


..even dogs dont fck without chemistry... .... True, and men, AND women, don't always need chemistry to fuck. Just arousal.

Is chemistry enough reason to have sex with a stranger? ..... Yes, most certainly can be enough.... It's a reason. Take it or leave it. And sometimes chemistry isn't even needed.


LazyDaisy2019 replies on 2/18/2019 6:07 am:
I wonder how successful you are with these views.

urchoice23 28M
5 posts
2/18/2019 3:29 am

Oh girls! what u waiting a chemistry or physical your choice.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/18/2019 3:35 pm

LazyDaisy2019 replies on 2/18/2019 6:07 am:
I wonder how successful you are with these views.


Extremely successful. No way to go wrong.

I don't invite women on a date, whom I don't know will put out.

If I invite a woman to accompany me to dinner or a movie , we would be hanging out together. [But I wouldn't do that if she is not sexually interested]. Also , of course, she would pay for her own food and movie.

If I don't know the woman, ...never met the woman before..... I may invite her to a meeting, or hangout. .....but certainly not a date. Although the meeting could do a sudden flip into date mode [get laid].... does happen sometimes.

To the topic of chemistry not being needed; ...One night stands. You don't need chemistry for a quick fuck in a back room or car......Just a mutual physical attraction.

So obviously , there is no way to NOT be successful.


LazyDaisy2019 replies on 2/21/2019 3:23 pm:
I cant beleive you are serious.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/20/2019 3:40 pm

It's most likely the number one reason people ghost.
Coming on too strong before ever meeting.
I also tend to believe once it happens the victims
don't look here anymore! Makes me very leery
of those who have been ghosted !
Who knows what they me be capable of.

Using more than all the road!


Evocules 55M
1288 posts
2/26/2019 4:43 pm

Wow! I thought I would be in the minority, saying I would rather connect mentally before I connect physically. Instead, it looks like most folks agree! I really go on chemistry and how the first date progresses, but I have found through the years that being patient and waiting for the right moment pays off wonderful dividends.


LazyDaisy2019 55F
17 posts
3/1/2019 2:59 pm

Many guys are too eager when they meet a woman off this site or any similar site. As if women owed them something. I can remember two guys who managed to surprise me that much that I dropped my jaw. The first one came to my house to pick me. When I approached the car neither he stopped talking on the phone nor did he get out to ay hello. I got in despate I saw the red flag. We went to a place to chat and both had capuccino. Soon he started to talk about earlier encounters stating that women are impossible and he won't pay again for anybody's coffee unless he is sure that there will be sex. Can you imagine?
Second guy drives me home. We were chatting the whole way. He stops the car near my house in the street, unzips himself and asks me if I give him a blowjob. This was the very first time I ever saw him!
It may sound funny but trust me I felt horrible. And yes before anyone asks OF COURSE THERE WAS NO SEX, just wanted to let you know how some people treat women whom they met on a sex site.


justme51 72M

3/22/2021 4:51 am

I dated younger ladies most of my life. The ones that call me daddy or have daddy issues fuck on first date. Mind you though a long friendship before first date.


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